The things people say... to someone with Infertility...

I find myself lately thinking alot of our twins we lost, and while I know we are beyond blessed with Ian our hearts still hurt.  My new favorite question to hear is ...


" So are you and Nick going to have another one.. you know since you have Frozen Embryos"

Or they just say

"So when are you guys going to have another one"

My initial response wants to be " Seriously... you do remember it took us 7 years of Infertility..."

Or I love ... well you know I've heard once you finally have one...  then you can get pregnant like that.... Ummmm Nope... doesn't always happen that way....

However...
My sweet fellow friend whom has been through infertility herself.. gave me the best answer ever...

Why Yes... When you pay the $5,000-$7,000 it will cost to put them back in I'll schedule the appointment...

Part of us wants another one... but we are both getting older... and then there is the money to do it.. and then.... well the possibility it would fail... and while I / we should be used to it by now.. after 7 years of Infertility... I don't know that my /our hearts are ready for that.


My heart will forever be connected to Infertility... and as odd as it may sound I'm so blessed God Sent us through this journey, I've met some amazing friends / people and be able to support others going through this journey... it fills my heart when someone shares their journey with me.. it's not an easy thing to do.. I know.. in fact it's one of the hardest things to do is share your journey... because then it becomes real....

So For Now... we will continue to keep loving on our sweet 14 month old... Nick says He's getting a Dog for a sibling LOL Dog or no dog... I wouldn't change our journey for the world, it's made me love and cherish him that much more...